Three Rules

There are only three rules in life.And we all know them.Paradox, humor, and change.

Paradox. Life is a mystery. Don’t waste time, try to understand it.

Humor. Keep your sense of humor, especially about yourself – it’s an unlimited power.

Change. Know this: nothing ever stays the same.

Recently, a client of mine, who had been working on a makeover for more than six months, told me: "Lena, I was afraid of you, you never smile in photos. I thought you were mean, strict, very serious."After an hour of conversation over coffee, she sighed with relief – "Wow, you're light, fun, and comfortable to be with!"Hmm, I think I need to fix the situation urgently! Otherwise, people who don’t know me personally might really think I’m a very serious lady!In general, I consider the ability to laugh and joke as one of my super talents. Well, besides all the other ones.I love dark humor. I see it as a sign of unconventional and sharp intelligence. With very close people, we practice it all the time.And yes, I completely agree that in recent years, there haven’t been many reasons to rejoice. The rollercoaster ride we’re all on. Wild.Well, since we can’t get off, we’re looking for reasons to be happy.

And they’re there too. I’ll share a few of my recent ones, and I’m waiting for your stories in the comments. One of my clients is getting married six months after her image change. I’m happy!The second one, after long months of job hunting, found two jobs that bring both pleasure and money. I’m happy!The third one created and launched a large-scale project! I’m happy!The fourth one realized that the man next to her is not the one she needs! She left him, focused on herself, and as a bonus, lost 7 kilograms. I’m happy!

I know for sure that in the most difficult times, life happens and beautiful stories are born!Smile! Train your mental flexibility, because humor and love are the two most powerful pain relievers.